I have a pagan friend who uses straight porn to get off. He complains that his wife isn’t interested in sex now that they’re married like she was when they were dating. They only have sex every few weeks which isn’t enough for him.
Years ago, I heard a woman argue on broadcast radio that fornication was necessary to gauge a lover’s ability in bed. Who wants to marry someone who isn’t a “gifted” humper?
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In the last post, I talked about both men and women’s viewpoints related to sex i.e. what their individual motivation is in general terms. Intercourse is a violent act by definition. It requires a male / female connection that implies dominance and reception which serves as a Biblical picture of God’s design for both sexes. Lesbians (especially those who were victims of sexual abuse as children) especially hate this fact. Frankly, I can’t blame them.
So, how as a parent can you increase the chances that your daughter will grow into a young woman who’s willing to spread her legs for an erect penis sans marriage?
Follow this advice closely:
A. As her parent, model little to no self control as it relates to food and media consumption for yourself. Attempt to rely exclusively on media consumption to pleasure yourself and to serve as a household pacifier. This is both easy, fun, and very popular here in the Western world.
B. Increase the chances that she be exposed to sexual abuse by paying for someone else to care for her when she’s too young to care for herself. Early childhood sexual abuse (especially when it’s repetitive in nature) almost guarantees a state of sexual confusion later on in the life of the girl / woman. Essentially, the more time she’s away from her parent(s), the better. And remember that sexual abuse doesn’t necessarily have to involve physical touch. Forcible exposure to an adolescent’s genitalia also qualifies.
C. Assuming that you’re married, avoid public displays of affection ESPECIALLY when on the street! Present for your daughter a sterile, friendly arrangement, not a steamy, sensual one. Absolutely do not kiss, cuddle, or swoon in front of her. Act like roommates, not married folks. And, better yet would be for you to divorce your spouse and shack up with a new stud / honey. Many girls are delved a monumental emotional blow when divorce occurs. This is especially true when the child’s a pre-teen and when it’s the father’s cavorting that has served to shatter the lynchpin within the marriage. Note that this type of environment is fertile ground for angry lesbians to take root.
D. Only pay close attention to your daughter when she’s paid close attention to herself i.e. when she’s done primping, give her a compliment about how she looks, but only if she’s perfected her look to your satisfaction.
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I sat down in the breakroom one day and ending up eating my lunch with another young woman (not the one mentioned in the previous post) who was visibly distressed. She was a personal friend, so I was concerned. I asked her to open up to me. She told me she’d just received word from her boyfriend that he was no longer interested in dating. For her, this man was a ticket out of singledom which she very much wanted. He was good looking and successful, and they’d been dating for quite some time.
I attempted to allay her concerns over that dastardly question of “WHY DID THIS HAPPEN TO ME?”, but wasn’t successful. I can still remember her radiating much dismay and confusion. She was crushed emotionally feeling both used up and thrown out.
I don’t know for certain if she had been sexual with this potential husband, but would bet that she had chosen to be (and often) based on her reaction that day. He had sold her a bill of goods (the idea of a promised life together) and she’d bought it hook, line, and sinker. She bled profusely for months afterwards. He walked away relatively unscathed.
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E. Point out physical anamolies often and in a critical tone, preferably within an air of sarcastic jest. If she’s overweight, poke fun at her about her tummy. If she has a big nose, never let her forget it. It’s especially clever to point out this anamoly either on yourself (if you share it) or someone else as a way to drive a point home indirectly. Children pick up on these things almost instantly. It’s easy and effective.
F. See that she’s dressed as her friend’s dress. Only the most stylish clothing trend will do. Push her to mimic the girls she sees on cable television / at the movies. Insist that she wear her hair long like the hair found on her dolls (especially if she’s blonde).
G. Encourage her pituitary gland to activate prematurely by introducing her to adult technology. Every child needs a smartphone! Texting, email, social media should all be at her disposal. As her parent, model this for her. If you’re skilled enough at this yourself, there won’t be any time to even begin monitoring her activity with these fun toys! Become adept at communicating with her via adult technology yourself. You’ll both feel so grown up!
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When I worked at Chick-Fil-A in high school, one of my cohorts was a college age guy who was fairly good looking, though somewhat sleazy. He seemed to get around, if you know what I mean. A younger, female colleague who seemed very unsure of herself looked to him (or so it seemed) for enlightenment on many topics. One of those was sexual intercourse. I recoiled at the rumor, and still today hope that it wasn’t true, but was informed that she paid him to give her some first hand experience. She actually paid him to have sex with her?
My Mom and Dad traveled to Hawaii after my mother’s affair with her boss ended. They spent a week there leaving me at home with my grandmother. When they returned, they explained to me how they’d renewed their vows at the base of a waterfall amongst the lush tropical vegetation, but unfortunately, the thousands of dollars spent to fund this trip wasn’t nearly enough to expunge the suitor’s seed from my mother’s heart.
Like a lot of gay boys, I was cut from the same cloth as my mother. It was apparent to me that she was in conflict internally. Despite my father’s best efforts, it was only through the healing power of the Holy Spirit within her that she found respite. Eventually she left her position at this company, took a few classes at the local community college and moved forward. All in all, I’d say it took at least two years for this to occur.
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H. Similar to item C, keep your hands off of your child – especially if you’re her father. Only touch her if it’s with the end of your pointer finger.
I. Put a television that’s connected to hundreds of cable television channels in her room.
J. Give her a laptop / tablet computer with unlimited / unrestricted / unsupervised internet access.
K. A few years after she starts her menstrual cycle, take her to the doctor and inquire about birth control medication. Obtain a prescription that’s on standby for the inevitable. Start encouraging her to think about dating.
L. Have “the sex education discussion” around this same time. Only talk about it once. Perhaps give her an illustrated book written for young adults about the topic. Never discuss it again. Certainly do not bring it up in casual conversation. Consider it a taboo subject matter within your household.
M. Do not expose your child to Christianity, Mormonism, or any other faith / cult that places value in sexual purity ‘til marriage. Use Sunday mornings to sleep in, drink six or eight cups of coffee, and read the paper(s)!
N. Similar to item A, if you’re her parent, use the internet to pleasure yourself i.e. use internet porn often. Don’t worry about attempting to cover your tracks. She’ll know exactly what you’re up to despite the secrecy once she comes of age.
O. Fear your daughter when she becomes threatening to you and yours. Pawn this off as respect of her privacy, etc. Do not get in her way. After all, she’s a reckless child who thinks she’s an adult, and soon enough she’ll be out of your house forever!
P. Support her as she works to "play the field" via dating. Provide her with as much alone time as she wants / needs with her boyfriends to get the job done!
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The woman who slept with her boyfriend while her brother and I watched Dirty Dancing is still somewhat in my realm of existence today. Angie saw her recently. Based on what she described to me, her entire physical presentation reflected the suffering and regret she’s put herself through time and time again at the hands of so many men. Looking for the one thing that all women want so desperately, but only choosing to return to the same vomit.
Women who behave like dogs in heat are doing themselves no favors. Parents who rear their daughters as I've described above are only increasing the likelihood of this occuring. Girls must be protected and treated with utmost care as they grow into young women. Each girl is different in their own unique ways. Know and understand your children. Actively parent them. Don't do it like "everyone else" is. They are your future. Give a damn about your daughter's understanding of sexuality and how her world (including her family) plays a part in that understanding for better or for worse. Don't hesitate to make radical changes on behalf of her future, if need be.
