Supersense

There are those of you out there who are ready to throw in the towel.  You're sick of the pain.  You're tired of being treated unfairly.  You're beat down.  You're hurting.  And you don't know why it seems to just be you.  Why don't other men go through this, with such intensity?

First and foremost, if you're where I'm describing, I would encourage you to remember that you are male.  You have balls having from between your legs for a reason.  And no, they're not just there to assist in reproduction. 

"But, but, but...it just hurts so much."

I know.  That is unfortunate, but for some of us, it is simply a reality that we must learn to deal with.  Over time, you must discipline yourself to cope with the pain in a healthy, productive way and not a destructive one.  And that's where your testicles come in.  That's why God gave them to you versus a vagina.  You are not weak.  You are not overcome by your emotions.  You are simply working towards managing them day by day.

Do not suppress your feelings.  It's futile and results in poor health.  Allow them to surface, but protect yourself by exhausting them smartly.  But do exhaust them.  And enjoy it.  I mean, the ones that are fun.  The others, you work to expunge for the sake of doing so alone.

It can get better, but you must remember who God made you to be, and you must not allow yourself to become jaded.  Draw strength from your masculinity.  And no, I'm not talking about jockstraps.

Don't know where to start?  Pick a gospel.  Look to Jesus Christ.