Defining maturity

It's owning up to who you are.  Both the positive and negative attributes.  While at the same time, recognizing the imperfectness (as a reflection of yourself) of those around you (relative to your situation).

And doing this during the lowest of times, hence providing yourself with an opportunity to grow through it.  For your own benefit but also for others' (future others' as well as your family, friends).

All the while, gravitating towards the goodness of God and the countless blessings he's bestowed upon you.  Blessings that will undoubtedly continue to be showered down.  Blessings that are undeserved.